This week has been really... quiet.
(I mean other than the stuff I have already written about)
I had a quiet night last night.
Klay stayed home and played Bob Villa, yup, he's still beautifying his apartment.
(I think I may start sub contracting him out for home improvement.. he's really good.)
I watched an interesting show... Hollywood Treasure on the ScyFy Network
I am really getting into shows like this (IE: Pawn Stars, American Pickers...etc.)
You get to see cool items, and they tell interesting facts about them...
And I love me some Movie Trivia!
Other than that.
I talked to my sister, about my mother (which is a taboo subject), for at least an hour last night.
We recently, made a sister decision, to cut off our mother.
She was abusive, and awful to us... for our entire lives.
She then, in an attempt to try and manipulate us for attention, almost took her life (I mean, she was DAMN close to doing it too.).
We knew this was the end, and basically told her, unless you are in treatment, we will not have a relationship with you. Unless you admit to the past abuse, we will not have a relationship with you.
So that's what we did.
Blocked her calls, and called it a day.
My mother will never try to step to me, I give her the truth, she knows my will is stronger than hers, so she never comes for me. She usually goes for my sister first, who historically (with no offense meant) was the weaker, easily manipulated one. Not anymore, my sister has grown into her own, and is giving my mother what she deserves (which is NONE of OUR energy).
Didn't stop my mother from sending HER letters, and SELF HELP books.
Because, in my mothers eyes, we are the ones with the "problems".
My sister wrote her a letter, and basically gave a point by point reasoning, why there would be NO interaction... why she didn't want a relationship with her ANYMORE.
And she said it with grace, and intelligence.
Well, that letter was mailed out a couple days ago, and should be received by the witch (i mean my mother)... today.
So, my sister, was freaking, and getting very anxious over it.
So, we talked, and I tried very hard to give her support.
I hope I helped in some way.
She sounded okay when we hung up the phone.
So... we'll see what kind of backlash comes.
I hope there isn't any.
I hope this is the final straw, and my mother gets it.. that we are DONE.
Now, not every situation is the same.
I don't condone cutting off family.
But, think what family is to you... and think if someone blood related was the 1000000000% opposite of that. In my mind, blood or not... doesn't make them family. In my mind, makes it okay to say, "this isn't right, please go away...."